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James’ Baptism

James' Baptism

We celebrated James’ Baptism (or Poppy’s interpretation “James’ getting his head wet“!) on Sunday with our family at Westbury.

James is exactly the same age Poppy was for her Baptism – but the days could not have been more different.  Poppy was baptised under the oak tree on our farm on a hot February day and James was baptised at Westbury Church on a wet and dreary Autumn morning.

The man of the moment did not shed a single tear throughout the whole service – the only mishaps were bumping his head on the pew and sitting on Sophie La Girafe who squeaked during the sermon!

James' Baptism

James' Baptism

James' Baptism

James' Baptism

James' Baptism

James' Baptism

James' Baptism

James' Baptism

James' Baptism

James' Baptism

James' Baptism

James' Baptism

My Sisters - James' Baptism

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Humdrum

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hum·drum  (hŭm′drŭm′)

adj.  Lacking variety or excitement; boring or dull.
n.  Monotonous talk or routine.

I find it tempting to always ‘glamourise’ your life ‘online’.  Be it on your blog, Instagram, Facebook or Twitter – we tend to showcase our best sides by uploading that perfect pic or writing only about the good times.  But what about the humdrum of day-to-day?  The boring bits in-between that nobody really thinks are valid to share.

Today I am going to share with you some of my humdrum – driving the kids to the park, blurry swing photos, the mess at home and spending a ‘crafternoon’ with Poppy making a Fairy Wand that ends up looking nothing like it should have.  Nothing glamorous – but it is the beauty of my world.

Autumn colours

The Train Park

The Train Park

The Train Park

The Train Park

The Train Park

The Train Park

Mess at home

Crafternoon

Crafternoon

Crafternoon

Crafternoon

Crafternoon

Crafternoon

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Chinese Puzzle

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My friend Annabelle and I went to the State Cinema on Tuesday night to see Chinese Puzzle.  I have always loved The Spanish Apartment and Russian Dolls and this third movie didn’t disappoint.  It was one of those movies that I was totally ‘in the moment’ with and didn’t want to end.

Go along and see it – lighthearted entertainment to take one’s mind off any sleepless baby!

Review by David Stratton

CHINESE PUZZLE is the third part of a trilogy following on from THE SPANISH APARTMENT and RUSSIAN DOLLS. Xavier, Romain Duris, a writer, has followed his English ex-wife, Wendy, KELLY REILLY, to New York after she left him, taking their two children, to live with her wealthy lover, PETER HERMANN. Xavier stays for a while with his lesbian friend Isabelle, CECILE DE FRANCE, and her lover Ju, SANDRINE HOLT, until the latter helps him find an old apartment in Chinatown. Because he needs American residency, Xavier enters into an arranged marriage with a Chinese girl, LI JUN LI, and he also receives the occasional visit from his former lover Martine, AUDREY TAUTOU.

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Sneaky Peek : Sleep Talk

Baby Sleeping by Martin-LyneSLEEP – the topic of conversations, thought processes and planning for most mother’s with young babies!  Unfortunately the topic is currently consuming me as James has totally regressed with his sleeping and has been very unsettled at night for many months.

I swallowed my pride last week and called in a ‘Sleep and Settling Consultant’!  Our mothers and grandmothers would ‘tut tut’ but I had reached breaking point.  I knew I needed help after I ashamedly hurled my Ugg boot across my bedroom in desperation, after so many nights of sleeplessness.

James would sleep well during the day as I have always been quite routine with him – punctuating my days by making sure I am home for his long lunch time sleep.  He would also settle well during the day and at bedtime but would then wake frequently from 11.00pm onwards.

Up until last week I would quickly breastfeed him and pop him back in his cot for another slumber.  Before I realised it, I was now on the self-perpetuating cycle of feeding him during the night and rewarding him for his wakefulness – resulting in exhaustion from being awake and having to make more milk.  Mooo!  I also knew I was feeding him for longer than he physically needed – especially as he had started well on solids and shouldn’t be needing any extra top-ups during the night.

I had made a rod for my own back – he was now in the habit of waking for a little midnight cuddle, some warm breast milk and a pat from his Mummy?  Why wouldn’t he?  Your mind can make the most appropriate justification for any behaviour – especially in the wee hours:

Oh he’s teething

It’s quicker to feed him so he will settle back to sleep

He didn’t drink much at bedtime, he must be hungry

We’re away on the boat – he isn’t in his familiar environment

Oh he must be still teething

Blah, blah, blah

I was like a walking zombie, only getting between 3 – 4 hours of sleep on my worst nights and enduring his crying of up to 2 hours at a time.  A helmet had encased my brain and all I could see was fog – I felt desperately tired and grumpy.

Ding Dong … Libby, the Sleep Consultant turned up last Friday and sat with me for nearly two hours to discuss my plight.  She taught me about sleep cycles; parent-led sleep associations; over-tiredness; pausing and consistency.  I had a previous understanding of all of these but I guess had lost the confidence to really apply them when the cards were down.

With copious notes in hand and a new vigor of hope in my step I felt excited about this next commitment.  Ironically James slept through that whole night … and the next … and the next.  I didn’t even need to apply my new routine … until last night when he was back to his old ways and persisted on crying from 1:40am to 3:20am.  Yawn!

A few steps forward and a couple back.  I am determined for this not to beat me.  I need my beauty sleep.  Xxx

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International Blog Swap Day

IBSDToday I have the privilege of sharing my blog with Annwen from Ramblings Of A Suburban Mummy in England as part of International Blog Swap Day:

Digital Parents are excited to have teamed up with Tots100, UK’s most exciting network for Mum and Dad bloggers to create the first ever International Blog Swap Day – a fab opportunity for Digital Parent bloggers to step into the shoes of a UK blogger for a day – and host a UK blogger on your own blog.

I am thrilled to host Annwen’s post with you all today.  Enjoy …


Hi, I’m Annwen,  I’m visiting from Ramblings Of A Suburban Mummy blog in the depths of Yorkshire in the UK.

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I’m featuring here on The Poppy Files as part of the International Blog Swap Day event. My blog tells tales from suburbia, I like to describe it as almost but not quite living the suburban dream. We live in a beautiful village near enough to big towns but still enjoying lots of countryside – for me it’s the best balance of both, I wouldn’t want to live somewhere too rural because I like having access to good nights out and shopping too much but I love that we can walk out of our front door and be in fields within two minutes.

Ramblings Of A Suburban Mummy BlogOur family consists of myself, Annwen, I’m an Office Manager in a teacher training office, I work part-time so I still have lots of time with the kids. I work because I like my independence and I need to be challenged. Being at home with the children is fantastic but I love my job and can’t imagine not working. I do find the balance of working, running a home and raising a family can be tough but I think I muddle through ok most of the time!

My husband, known as R, is a Bank Manager, he works really hard to look after our family and is my best friend. We’ve been married nearly 8 years now and it’s flown by, we got married in Orlando, Florida and it’s one of our favourite places in the world. I can’t wait until the children are old enough to take them for a visit!

We have two children, C, our son, is 5. He is a very loving child, always thinking of others and putting people before himself. He loves to be outdoors and will happily play in the garden for hours on end. He loves Angry Birds, Lego and sticker books, give him anything to do with those things and he would be happy for hours! Our main trouble with C at the moment is that if he could he would play on the iPad all day long, we’ve had to ration him to half an hour at most because otherwise we’d never see him! Summer time helps with that because he’d much rather be playing in the garden and he forgets about the TV or iPad when he can spend time outdoors!

LissyLou is our 3yr old. She is the bossy one of the family. She likes things done her way and will tell you very quickly if you get it wrong. She is also a sweetheart, cute as a button and she wraps her Daddy around her little finger. She recently started Ballet Lessons and I love how hard she is working to practice her steps and moves. It’s very sweet watching her dance with her teacher, Miss Ruth, she loves her and always behaves beautifully at ballet class. She is madly in love with Harry from One Direction and can spot pictures of him from miles away, it’s a strange obsession for one so small but it only seems to grow!

If you would like to know more about our lives, our ups, downs and all the in-betweens I hope you will visit over at Ramblings Of A Suburban Mummy (www.realsuburbanmummy.com)

Annwen xx

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Mum ♥

I love my mum

“I love my Mum because … she plays with my dog, she does jobs, I like her”.  Poppy presented me with this masterpiece yesterday morning for Mother’s Day.

I hope you all had a nice day?  I managed a sleep in and a very relaxing day spent with my little munchkins, Nick and his folks.  We made pizza’s and ended up having a long lunch.  Lovely.  X

Mother's Day

Mother's Day

Mother's Day

Mother's Day

Mother's Day

Mother's Day

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Play : Pirate : Patient

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Our days have been busy – so busy in fact that I didn’t manage to publish a post yesterday!  We have had swimming lessons and trying to spend as much time out of the house when the sun is shining.

At Nutgrove Park on Thursday Poppy loved climbing on all the equipment whilst James was happy to sit and run the sand through his hands and to eat the Autumn leaves!

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Poppy

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Nutgrove Park

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Poppy played in her Pirate outfit … (a pair of tights on her head)!

Pirate Poppy

Pirate Poppy

To finish off the day, Poppy had her first visit to the dentist.  All OK in the teeth department and she was a very good patient.

Poppy at the dentist

Poppy at the dentist

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The Very Hungry Caterpillar ♥

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Today I am loving The Very Hungry Caterpillar books.

Eric Carle’s The Very Hungry Caterpillar is a perennial favourite with children and adults alike. Its imaginative illustration and clever cut-out detail charts the progress of a very hungry caterpillar as he eats his way through the week.

I distinctly remember reading the book when I was young and have always loved the story and all those fabulous colours.  I now enjoy sharing such a timeless classic with our little hungry caterpillar!

James - Hungry Caterpillar

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James - Hungry Caterpillar

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5 Piece Dinner Set

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Sneaky Peek : Sleep Deprived Surfing

Hopewell QuiltHmmmppphff!

Nick and I have had another sleepless night with our James.  Luckily he is so cute because I would have put him on eBay months ago (only joking).  Grrrrrr!

So rather than focusing on the negatives (oh boy I could rant about how little sleep we are getting at the moment) I thought I would focus on the positives and share some lovely things that have been piquing my interest during my sleep deprived web surfing moments.

Chair

Il Bisonte Bag

UNIQLO Cashmere

Print Bebe Pants

UNIQLO

Abode Linen

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Cosy Conversation

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I’m re-posting my Instagram photo from Sunday because I just love the low Autumn light across the table.

Nick was away boating over the weekend and so my sister Cath and dear friend Depha, joined me for dinner on Saturday evening.

I lit the fire, cooked up a big Coq Au Vin and settled in for a cosy night of conversation. Xx